I need some advice 10pts?

I think you need to focus on yourself and the baby at this time. It seems like the father of your child is not interested in a relationship with you and possibly does not want a relationship with your baby. You have reached out to him and given him time already to figure things out and he is still keeping you in the dark. I suggest you move on and prepare yourself for being a single mother. If he really does care about you and your child, he will come to you, treat you better and spend more time with you on his own. I hope this helps and hope everything works out. Good luck.