Do you ever feel the feminist movement has gone to far?

I work outside of the home then come home to do my "homework", cooking, cleaning, caring for the children. I don't sit on my and expect my husband to do anything after he worked all day. I think I am a minority because I hear other women in the office talk about how they don't cook or clean and they expect their husbands to do this and that and care for the baby. They balk when I tell them I bring my husband and children their plates for dinner already made. My husband will cook occasionally about every six months or so and has done the dishes twice in the last three years. I would love to be a SAHM, but that would not be economically sound for my family. I don't sit down until around 8 or 9 at night because of all my daily chores, cooking, cleaning, laundry, making lunch and coffee for the next day and signing paperwork, children's homework. I think it's ridiculous women complaining and playing on the Internet all day while their husbands work and then come home to a dirty house, children and a complaining wife who expects them to do everything when they were home all day? It's a privilege to be able to stay home and care for your family... some of us do both! I expect my husband to cherish me as I respect him... but, I'm not going to bow down to every whim and he isn't going to just say, "yes dear you are right".